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Whether relationships or friendships, having an unexplainable relationship with someone is something most people desire. Having an unexplainable bond with someone is a great way to build relationships and friendships that elevate you to a different level physically, mentally, and spiritually.
But the bigger question is, how do you attract such people into your life? Well, the answer is simple; one way to attract people to have an unexplainable bond with someone is through manifestation. And in this post, we will share with you the tips to have you manifest an unexplainable connection with someone.
In this post, we will take a look at how to attract or manifest high vibrational people into your life and also, how to build deeper connections with these people.
How To Attract A Friend Or A Partner Into Your Life:
Attracting a partner or a friend into your life is the first step to building strong connections with people. This is because if you do not attract such people in your life, there is no way you are going to be able to build an unexplainable connection.
Maybe you just met the person at your office or in your community, or at school, and you desire to have a deeper connection with them, then your first step will be to attract the person. So, in this section, we will take a look at how you can manifest a friendship or a relationship with someone you do not know; but you desire to attract them into your life and build that unexplainable bond with them.
So, let’s take a look at how we can attract such relationships or friendships.
1.Assess Yourself
Before you start attracting people into your life, you want to assess yourself. You want to make sure that you look deep inside yourself and then ask yourself if you are in the same soul vibration level as the person you want to build this unexplainable connection with. Do not forget the law of attraction says “like attract like.” So, if you want to attract certain types of friendships or relationships into your life, you want to ensure that you have the same soul vibration as them.
Let’s take an example to make things clearer. So, assuming you’re a 6 figure earner, and you are trying to connect with a billionaire, it might be highly impossible. It could happen, but the chances are slim because the universe is likely going to connect you to people who are on the same vibrational level as you are.
By elevating your vibration, it makes it easy for you to align with the frequency of the person you want to have that deeper connection with to make it easier to connect with them.
So, if you are not on the same vibrational as the person you are trying to have a deeper connection with, then you make sure that you start improving your vibration. When you feel like you are on the same level as the person you want to have that deep connection with, then you can go ahead to try the tips I am to share.
2.Set The Intention
After assessing yourself, and improving yourself (if necessary), the next step is to set the intention. What I mean by this is to tell the universe what exactly you want. Whether it is a friendship or a romantic relationship, you want to make sure the universe knows what exactly it is you want.
One way to do this is to visualize yourself being around that person. If it is a relationship you want with the person, you want to visualize yourself on a date with them. If it is a friendship you want with the person, you want to visualize yourself hanging around them or visualize them being your friends.
After visualizing what it is you want with the person, you want to start declaring it into your life. You want to declare that you want to love resourceful friends coming into your life. If you know the person’s name, you want to add their name to your declaration to make it more specific. However, if you do not know their name, you can simply imagine the kind of relationship you want with them.
If you do not have anyone in mind, but you desire a certain type of relationship or friendship, you can simply just visualize the type of friends or partner you want in your life. However, you want to always remember that they should be on your vibration level.
3.Put Yourself Out There
The next step is to put yourself out there, you do not just want to wish to have an unexplainable connection with someone, however, you also want to put in the effort to create the opportunity for it to happen.
So, you want to put yourself out there, what I mean by this is that, if the person you want to bond with is in the office, then you want to say hi to them when you see them. If they are in your school, then you want to sit closer to them. By doing this, you increase your chances of getting seen or noticed by them, making it easier for you to attract them.
Even though I recommend you put yourself out there, I want you to focus on yourself. Go about your day, and do not worry about them noticing you or not. What I mean by this is to just say a simple “hi” or “hello” to the person and then go about your day. You want to let the universe handle the rest. All you need to do is to create the opportunity and let the universe determine the outcome.
For those of you who have no specific person in mind, you can simply join online groups or groups where the type of friends or partner you want will most likely be at. So, if you want a spiritual person or spiritual friends, then you want to make sure that you join spiritual online groups. If you want to be friends with people that like to travel, then you want to make sure that you join groups that have such people.
How To Build A Connection With Someone:
Now you have attracted the type of friendship or relationship you desire, the next step is to deepen that relationship to ensure that you actualize that unexplainable connection. So, in this section, we will look at some tips to help you build a stronger bond with someone.
1.Start A Conversation
One of the best ways to build an unexplainable connection with someone is to have a conversation. A conversation can be an effortless way to reveal a lot about the person and yourself. Through a conversation, you can easily determine if the person is someone you share a common interest with or not.
i.Find Commonalities:
While having a conversation with them, you want to make sure that you take note of commonalities you and the person have. I mean, people love to walk or be around like-minded people. If you are looking to build an unexplainable connection with someone you want to let them know that you share a common ground with them, and this makes it easier for them to resonate with you, and want to be around you more.
ii.Listen and Repeat:
In addition, you want to attentively listen to what the person is saying and then repeat key points they said. Well, we all love it when someone listens to us and askes questions. It leaves an ecstatic impression on us and makes us feel good and wanted.
What I mean by this is assuming you are having a conversation with the person you want to build the bond with, and for instance, they say they like swimming, and their favorite stroke is the breaststroke. Well, when they say something they like as I stated, you want to pause and say something like “Wait, so, you said you like breaststroke?” Or you could be like “Ow nice, why breaststroke out of all the swimming strokes?” Saying something like this gives them the impression that you love what they are saying. And when you do this, they are going to want to be around you more since you make them feel listened to, and through this, you would be able to deepen your bond with them.
2.Try Out Some Of The Commonalities
One of the best ways to have an unexplainable bond with someone is to do something you and the person loves, or what the person loves. So, if in the course of the conversation, you both realized that you loved swimming in the ocean, then you want to make sure that you take some time and go swim in the ocean together.
Trust me, going out with the person and spending more physical time together will take your relationship or friendship to a whole new level. To initiate this, you want to say something like “Hey, how about we go swimming in the ocean sometime.” And you can say this at the end of your first conversation or in subsequent conversations.
How To Know If You Have An Unexplainable Connection With Someone:
So, maybe after your first conversation or after the first time you and the person hanged out, you want to be sure that you and the person have a real connection and it isn’t something you’re fantasizing.
1.Your Instincts Let You Know
Well, we all have instincts, and most of the time, our instinct tells us stuff before we realize it. Well, if you have a deep connection with someone, you are going to feel it inside that you have a natural vibe with the person. You will realize that you do not have to force conversations with them, or you do not have to pretend to be someone else when you are around them. You will realize that you and the person share a lot of commonalities and you have endless topics to discuss.
Usually, this can be determined after you speak to the person, or hang out with the person. In some occurrences, you can just feel in yourself by just meeting the person for the first time without having to put in any conscious effort.
Sometimes, just by having your first conversation with the person, you tend to have a feeling that makes it seem as though you’ve known them for a long time, even though you just met.
2.You Trust Them Easily
Yes, when you have a deeper connection with someone, you realize that you trust them faster than you normally would. You realize that you tell them a whole lot about yourself that you probably wouldn’t tell anyone that easily. Sometimes, you get carried away by how effortless it is to confide in them. You just trust them without having them have to make put in any effort. You will also notice that they trust you, and they effortlessly trust you without you having to put in any effort as well.
3.Mutual Respect
Well, the first sign that shows that you have a deep connection with someone is mutual respect. We all know that respect is the benchmark for every successful relationship and without respect, no relationship will succeed. If you have a deeper relationship with someone, they will listen to you as you listen to them, and respect is reciprocated among both parties.
What this means is that when you are speaking to that friend or your partner, they will attentively listen to you without cutting you off, or making you feel as if what you are saying is irrelevant.
In addition, when someone is connected to you spiritually and emotionally, they respect your boundaries and try as much not to push them. They also respect your opinions and decisions and try as much to take what you say to them into consideration.
Nevertheless, if you two have any differences, someone who has an unexplainable connection with you will always respect those differences and show appreciation for those differences. And even though you and the person might have your differences, you will realize that regardless of these differences, your interests with the person always align, and the differences tend to make you and the person compatible.
So, if you have someone who doesn’t respect you and what you stand for, then it means they might not be any connection between you two.
4.You Help Each Other If It Is In Your Power
We are human, and as humans, we will always need the help of others. Well, if you have someone you have an unexplainable bond with, you will realize that they are always willing to help you even if it isn’t within their means. You will also realize that you are always willing to help the person too when they are in a difficult situation.
Help doesn’t necessarily have to be financial help, you can help the person physically, emotionally, and spiritually as well. Trust me, when someone has an unexplainable connection with you, they will always step up to help you without thinking twice, and even if they cannot at that moment, they will find alternative ways to help you.
For example, assuming you’re at work, and you do not have money to get lunch, and you need to borrow $50 from a friend. Well, assuming that friend has no cash to lend you, they share their lunch with you. And even if they do not have any lunch or money, they might find ways to make sure that they help you out.
5.You Quickly Forgive Each Other
As humans, we are bound to make mistakes and wrong each other; I mean no one is perfect, right? However, if you have a spiritual connection with someone, you are most likely going to forgive them when they make a mistake that hurts you. Also, you will realize that you and the person try as much as possible to not hurt each other, as well as, trying as much as possible to have any misunderstanding.
This is because you and your partner or your friend value what you have more than whatever issue that happened between you both leading to the misunderstanding.
6.You Feel Safe Around Them
Finally, you tend to feel safe around them, and you feel like you can tell them everything in the world without them having to judge you. You realize that you can go to them for advice, and they also come to you for advice.
7.They Want To See You Grow
Finally, if you have an unexplainable bond with someone, they will always want to make sure that you are improving. And when you make any progress, they are just as excited as you are for the progress you’ve made. They aren’t jealous of your growth neither do they hinder you from growing. They always have your best interest at heart, and always want to make sure you are becoming a better person each day.
Final thoughts
Having an unexplainable bond with someone is very important. However, you need to make sure that the person you have the bond with, which is why we have shared the following tips with you to help you know whether the relationship you have with the person is what you think it is.
